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SEXUAL
PROMISCUITY:
Purity is the best choice
Do you have all the facts?
Having sex before marriage is a gamble you
cannot afford to take. No one playing this game ever expects
to lose, but many do! You only have to read the daily newspapers
to confirm the numbers. It is estimated that 2.2 million Kenyans
are now living with human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) infection,
but few people know if they are infected, nor do they show
outward symptoms of the disease. (Ministry of Health, 2001)
Note: Please be aware that some
of the following pages contain information that may not be
suitable for young children. An effort has been made to present
this information in the most sensitive yet factual way possible.
Q.
Almost everyone I know is having sex, so how can I resist
the pressure to have sex before marriage?
A. Today, the pressure to have sex before marriage
is overwhelming. Much of the pressure comes from the media
where music videos and television present to young people
an imaginary world where actions have no negative or lasting
consequences. Contemporary youth culture also conveys the
idea that ‘everybody’s doing it’. Young
people face a lot of pressure from their friends to have sex
before marriage. Often the main reason they have sex before
marriage is because they fear losing their peers’ acceptance
if they refuse to have sex.
The desire to wait for marriage before having
sex is admirable and it may come as a surprise to some that
this is the desire of a significant number of teenagers and
young adults. There are plenty of single adults who are holding
off on sex until the time is right. Results from a recent
questionnaire returned by 90 students at a public university
in Nairobi reveal that 47.8% of the respondents were still
sexually pure. This is a marked contrast to the belief held
that all university students are “doing it.” In
another national survey of Kenya’s church youth, 62%
of the youth interviewed indicated that they preferred to
wait until marriage to have sex. (MAP International, 1996)
Saying ‘no’ to sex before marriage can be tough.
To help you with this challenge, here are a few practical
suggestions to help you keep your resolve.
1. Establish your principles regarding
sex and marriage before you begin dating. Decide before
the date, before the relationship gets serious, before your
partner asks you to ‘prove your love’, that sex
begins on the wedding night and not earlier. Keep your reasons
clearly in mind. You are waiting because you desire to enjoy
sex fully, without fear and secrecy, without risking serious
disease and unplanned pregnancy. Saying ‘no’ to
sex before marriage will enable you to build a stable, enjoyable
marriage…with no regrets or past mistakes to hide. Once
you have established firm principles and values on which to
base your behavior, it will become easy to reject or avoid
anything that would put your values in danger.
Saying ‘no’ to sex early in
life will help you achieve many of your other priorities in
life. For example, while you are in school you will be free
to concentrate on your studies and eventually establish a
career without the unnecessary delay caused by sickness or
unplanned pregnancy.
2. Avoid situations
that will increase the risk of an accident. Remember
that sexual feelings gain momentum just like a car rolling
down a steep hill. It is so much easier to put on the brakes
in a “level” public place than when you are alone
in your partner’s house.
Counselors suggest that you avoid places
where provocative music is played that arouse one’s
sexual desires. In addition to avoiding enticing situations,
keep your mind away from sexually oriented films, videos,
books and magazines. Whatever you fill your mind with will
eventually overflow and become an action. If you want to remain
pure, feed your mind on that which is pure. (Philippians
4:8)
3. Make sure that
close friends are people who will help in life and not harm
you. Choose friends who share your values in life and
who have the courage to stand up and to be different. In this
way, you can help each other to be better people. God made
men and women to be friends. At the right time, this friendship
may develop and blossom into a relationship of love and possibly
marriage. In the meantime, patiently learn each other’s
character as you interact in group activities together. Someone
has suggested that a good friend is someone you don’t
mind introducing to your parents or grandparents!
You will know if your friendship is healthy
and good if your friendship encourages you to be a better
person. Your friendship will be healthy if you are always
increasing in your respect for each another. You do not need
sexual involvement to be friends. If someone really loved
you, they would not demand that you compromise your principles.
True love is willing to wait for marriage before expressing
that love to the fullest. Such love is not based on feelings
alone, but on commitment. True love involves commitment. Wait
for true love.
Q.
Are the statistics on sexually transmitted diseases really
true? Is it possible to catch a disease if both you and your
sex partner are clean and healthy?
A. Yes, most of the statistics about sexually transmitted
diseases are true. It is estimated that by the year 2005,
there will be 571,000 HIV positive Kenyans, between the ages
of 15 and 24! Right now, there are 2.2 million Kenyans who
are living with human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) infection,
but few know whether they are infected or show outward symptoms
of the disease. (Ministry of Health, 2001) One out of six
people in Nairobi are HIV positive, and AIDS patients occupy
over 60% of all hospital beds in Kenya. (MAP International,
1996)
Yes, it is very possible to catch a sexually
transmitted disease (STD) even if you both appear to be healthy
and clean. In the past, most teens and young adults worried
about broken dreams, lost reputations and unintended pregnancies
when they engaged in sex outside of marriage. Today, sexually
active teens are at great risk of contracting sexually transmitted
diseases, including the deadly AIDS virus for which there
is no cure. The following information will give a better view
of the risks involved in being sexually active outside of
marriage.
Sexually transmitted diseases, or STDs,
are infections that can be transferred from one person to
another through sexual contact. Adolescents and young adults
(ages 15-24) are the age groups at the greatest risk for acquiring
STDs.
Some STDs are treatable. However, even the
once easily cured STD called gonorrhea has become resistant
to many of the earlier antibiotics. Other STDs, such as herpes,
AIDS, and genital warts, all of which are caused by viruses,
have no cure. Some of these infections are very uncomfortable,
while others can be deadly. Syphilis, AIDS, genital warts,
herpes, hepatitis, and even gonorrhea have all been known
to cause death.
Many STDs can lead to related conditions
such as pelvic inflammatory disease, cervical cancer and complications
in pregnancy. Therefore, education about these diseases and
prevention is important.
At present, health management professionals
in Kenya are classifying and treating STDs by their symptoms.
This system divides STDs into three main groups as follows:
(MAP International, 1996)
1. STDs that cause genital ulcers:
These STDs include syphilis, herpes, chancroid and less commonly,
lympho-granuloma.
2. STDs that
cause vaginal discharge: These STDs include gonorrhea,
trichomonas, chlamydial infection and thrush. (While thrush
can be transmitted sexually, it can also occur for other reasons.)
3. STDs that
cause genital discharge in males. These STDs include
gonorrhea and chlamydial infection.
A more detailed description of the most
common sexually transmitted diseases is provided below:
Chlamydia:
Chlamydia is a very dangerous STD because it usually has no
symptoms; 75% of infected women and 25% of infected men show
no symptoms at all. Type:
Bacterial Modes of Transmission:
Vaginal and anal sex. Symptoms:
Symptoms may include abnormal genital discharge, and burning
during urination in both men and women. Women may also experience
lower abdominal pain or discomfort during intercourse. Men
may experience swelling or pain in the testicles. Treatment:
Infection can be cured with antibiotics. However, it cannot
undo the damage done prior to treatment. Possible
Consequences for the Infected Person: If untreated,
up to 30% of infected women will experience pelvic inflammatory
disease (PID), which in turn often leads to ectopic pregnancy,
infertility, and chronic pelvic pain. In men, if untreated,
chlamydia can cause epididymitis, an inflammation of a testicle
(where sperm are stored), which may result in sterility. Infected
individuals are at greater risk of contracting HIV, if exposed
to the virus. Prevention:
Abstaining from vaginal and anal sex with an infected person
is the only 100% effective means of prevention. Latex condoms
can reduce, but not eliminate, the risk of contracting the
disease.
Gonorrhea:
Gonorrhea is a very frequently reported STD. If not treated,
it can cause sterility. Type:
Bacterial Modes of Transmission:
Vaginal, anal or oral sex. Symptoms:
Though some cases may be asymptomatic, (lacking symptoms)
when symptoms do appear, they are often mild and usually appear
within 2-10 days after exposure. The symptoms include discharge
from the penis, vagina, or rectum and burning or itching during
urination. Treatment: Infection
can be cured with antibiotics, however, treatment cannot undo
the damage done prior to treatment. Possible
Consequences for the Infected Person: Untreated in
women, the disease is a major cause of pelvic inflammatory
disease (PID). PID can lead to ectopic pregnancy, infertility,
and chronic pelvic pain. It can cause sterility in men. Untreated
gonorrhea can infect the joints, heart valves and/or the brain.
Prevention: Abstaining
from vaginal, anal and oral sex with an infected person is
the only 100% effective means of prevention. Latex condoms
can reduce, but not eliminate, the risk of contracting the
disease during sex.
Genital Herpes
(HSV-2): Genital Herpes (HSV-2) is painful and episodic.
It can be treated, but there is no cure. Type:
Viral infection. Modes of Transmission:
Herpes is spread by direct sexual skin-to-skin contact with
the infected site during vaginal, anal or oral sex. Another
strain of the virus, Herpes Simplex Type 1 (HSV-1) is most
commonly spread by nonsexual contact and usually causes sores
on the lips. However, HSV-1 can also be transmitted through
oral sex and can cause genital infections. Symptoms:
Symptoms are often very mild and may include an itching or
burning sensation; pain in the legs, buttocks or genital area;
or vaginal discharge. Blisters or painful open sores may appear,
usually in the genital area, buttocks, anus, and thighs, although
they can erupt anywhere. Sores heal after several weeks but
may recur. Treatment: There
is no known cure. An anti-viral drug is usually effective
in reducing the frequency and duration of HSV-2 outbreaks.
Possible Consequences for the
Infected Person: An infected person with sores has
an increased risk that exposure to HIV will lead to infection.
The sores provide an entry point for the AIDS virus. Prevention:
Abstaining from vaginal, anal and oral sex with an infected
person is the only 100% effective means of preventing the
sexual transmission of genital herpes. Latex condoms can reduce
but not eliminate the risk of contracting the disease during
sex. However, it is still possible to contract genital herpes,
even though using a condom, via sores in the genital area.
HIV/AIDS:
HIV/AIDS was first recognized in 1984. AIDS in Africa is becoming
a leading cause of death among young men and women. The virus
is fatal involving a long, painful death. Type:
Viral Modes of Transmission:
Vaginal, oral and especially anal sex; infected blood or blood
products; sharing drug needles with an infected person; and
from infected mother to infant in utero, or during birth.
Symptoms: Some people experience
no symptoms when first infected. Others have flu-like symptoms
including fever, loss of appetite, weight loss, fatigue and
enlarged lymph nodes. The symptoms usually disappear within
a week to a month, and the virus can remain dormant for years.
However, it continues to weaken the immune system, leaving
the individual increasingly unable to fight opportunistic
infections. Treatment: There is no known cure. Antiviral drugs
are used to prolong the life and health of the infected person.
Other treatments are used to combat opportunistic infections.
Possible Consequences for the
Infected Person: Virtually everyone who becomes infected
with HIV will eventually develop AIDS and die of AIDS-related
complications. Prevention:
Abstaining from sex with an infected person is the only 100%
effective means of preventing the sexual transmission of HIV.
Latex condoms can reduce but not eliminate the risk of contracting
the disease during sex.
Syphilis:
Syphilis is an infection caused by small organisms, which
can spread throughout the body. Type:
Bacterial. Modes of Transmission:
Through unprotected vaginal, oral, or anal sex — and
also through kissing if there is a lesion on the mouth. Symptoms:
The first sign is usually a sore called chancre. It appears
two to five weeks (on the penis) after sexual contact with
a person who has syphilis. The chancre may look like a pimple,
a blister, or an open sore. It usually appears in the genital
area of the man or woman and commonly on the lips, fingers,
anus or mouth. The sore only lasts a few days and then goes
away by itself without treatment, but the disease continues
spreading through the body. Weeks or months later, there may
be a sore throat, mild fever, mouth sores, swollen joints,
or painful rashes all over the body, ring-shaped welt (like
hives) an itchy rash on the hands or feet. All these signs
usually go away and the person often thinks he is well, but
the disease continues. Possible
Consequences for the Infected Person: Increased risk
of HIV infection. If syphilis is left untreated, the symptoms
will disappear, but the germ will remain within the body and
progress into the third stage, which may seriously damage
the brain, heart, and nervous system, and possibly cause death.
It can also seriously harm a developing fetus during pregnancy.
Treatment: Antibiotic treatment
can cure the disease if it’s caught early, but medication
can’t undo damage the disease has already done. Both
partners must be treated at the same time. Prevention:
Abstaining from sex with an infected person is the best protection.
To avoid infection have sex with one faithful partner.
Trichomoniasis
(‘Trich’): Trichomoniasis is a parasitic
infection of the genital area. Approximately five million
people get it every year. Type:
Parasitic Modes of transmission:
Through unprotected vaginal intercourse. Symptoms:
A thin and foamy, greenish-yellow or whitish, foul smelling
discharge with itching, usually within four days to one month
after exposure to the parasite. Men may notice a discharge
from the penis. It may burn to urinate and sometimes the genitals
hurt or are swollen. The discharge may contain blood. Possible
consequences for the infected person: It can cause
premature labor in pregnant women, and increased risk of HIV
infection. Also, it’s common for this infection to occur
again and again. Treatment:
Antibiotics can cure the infection. Both partners need to
be treated at the same time to prevent passing the infection
back and forth and both partners need to abstain from intercourse
until the infection is gone. Prevention:
Abstain from sex with an infected person.
Despite the epidemic of heartaches and horrors
from STDs, it seems that few people are willing to accept
the obvious. These diseases could be avoided completely if
uninfected people would postpone sex, find and marry one partner,
and remain mutually faithful for life.
If you or someone you know has a STD you
should do the following:
1. Get proper treatment
as soon as possible.
2. Contact your sexual partner or partners
and encourage them to get the same
treatments whether
they have the symptoms or not. It is quite possible to have
the infections
without symptoms.
3. Both the person with the STD and his
or her sexual partner should be counseled and
encouraged to have
a HIV test.
4. Until an STD is treated and healed (no
more discharge, the ulcers healed, and any other
symptom resolved), a person with an STD should refrain from
sexual intercourse or
at least use a condom properly. This will reduce the likelihood
of spreading the STD
and also reduce the risk of contracting HIV/AIDS.
In summary, although these ways of reducing
the spread of STDs are important, they are not 100% sure because
a significant number of STD infections are symptom-less and,
therefore, go unnoticed and untreated. The only sure way of
preventing STDs is to follow God’s design for sex; abstinence
before marriage and faithfulness in marriage.
Q.
What are the risks of being infected by STDs or HIV/AIDS if
I practice safe sex?
A. There is really no such thing as ‘safe’
sex. The only truly ‘safe sex’ is either total
abstinence or sex in marriage. That is, sex in the context
of a monogamous marriage relationship, where neither party
is infected with a STD, is considered ‘safe’.
When people talk about ‘safe sex’ they usually
mean taking the following three precautions:
1. Limiting the
number of partners with whom one has sex. The idea
is that if you have fewer partners, you have fewer chances
for exposure to disease. The problem, however, is the fact
that one does not need many sexual partners to contact a disease.
A lethal disease can be transmitted by a single sexual contact
with one infected partner.
2. Knowing something
about a partner’s sexual history. Once you have
your partner’s history, you need to make a choice not
to have sex with someone who has had many partners. The problem
is that you do not know whether you are going to get the whole
story of your prospective partner’s sex life, especially
if he or she has something to hide.
How are you going to find out the sexual
history of your prospective partner? It is hard in African
societies to discuss sexual matters. Imagine the challenge
of trying to interview your partner about his or her former
sex life in the middle of a passionate date! Remember that
from an infectious disease standpoint, you not only have sex
with the person at hand, but with all of their sexual contacts,
and all of their contacts’ contacts! This shows that
you need a lot of information about your partner in order
to make sure you are safe!
3. Use a condom
at all times, consistently and correctly. This is another
safeguard suggestion to help you have ‘safe sex.’
If you are gambling, this may be your best bet for reducing
your risks. However, there are two main problems with this
suggestion.
First, although many young people are aware
that condoms made of latex (a rubber product) can reduce their
chances of contracting HIV and other STDs, they do not use
condoms. A survey conducted among churched youth in Kenya
revealed that only 3 out of 10 sexually active youth (ages
12–24) use condoms. (MAP International, 1996)
Second, many young people and adults do not use condoms consistently
and correctly, even with education and high motivation. Using
a condom consistently means using a condom ‘with each
act of intercourse’ and using it from ‘start to
finish’. Using a condom correctly involves at least
10 criteria:
- Use only a latex condom,
never a condom made from sheepskin or other material.
- Be sure the expiration date on the condom
has not passed.
- Check to be sure the condom is not brittle
or discolored (a dark brown). This is a sign that
either heat or time has destroyed the latex fibers.
- Keep condoms in a cool place, out of direct
sunlight. A man’s wallet or a car glove compartment
is an unacceptable place.
- Use a new latex condom for each act of
sexual intercourse.
- Never use petroleum jelly such as Vaseline
or cooking fat on the condom to lubricate. This
will break down the fiber of the condom. Use water-based lubricants
like glycerin or KY Jelly,
found at the chemists.
- The condom should be opened carefully
from the packet, taking care not to rip the condom
with sharp fingernails.
- Put on the condom as soon as erection
occurs and before any sexual contact.
- The penis must be erect and the condom
applied over the firm penis. Hold the tip of the
condom while unrolling it onto place, leaving space at the
end of the condom, yet ensuring
that no air is trapped in the condom’s tip. Then unroll
the condom carefully all the
way to the end of the penis.
- After the man has had sex with his partner,
he should withdraw immediately after ejaculation,
holding the condom firmly to keep it from slipping off. He
must remove the condom being
careful not to spill the semen.
Did you notice how much is involved for
consistent and correct condom use? Obviously, the process
and the product are not fool proof, which means there is always
the chance of a deadly virus passing from one partner to another
even with the use of a condom. Deciding if that’s a
risk you are willing to take is a major part of the decision
to have sexual intercourse, and perfectly illustrates the
reason God says saving sex for marriage is the best way. He
loves us and wants to protect us from harmful choices. The
only true safe sex is abstinence. By choosing abstinence now,
no matter what your previous experience has been, you are
choosing life. Choose life. Make a difference!
Q. What are the spiritual
considerations of the decision to have sex outside of marriage?
A. Sex before marriage breaks God’s command.
(Ephesians
5:3) (Galatians
5:19) The ultimate rule for all people regarding
sex is that it should be reserved for marriage, with complete
faithfulness to only one partner. If you are not married,
total abstinence from sex is the rule. (I
Thessalonians 4:3-6) This is difficult and contrary
to human instinct, but like any desire, guidelines are provided
to optimize fulfillment of that desire. Ignoring the rules
leads to an unhealthy life and a corruption of the sexual
desire. In marriage, sex can be enjoyed, explored and nurtured
without guilt, without negotiating and without fear of negative
physical, emotional or spiritual consequences. Sex between
a married couple is a good thing!
God created you and knows what is best for
you. He is concerned about how you use your body. (I
Corinthians 6:18-20) (Genesis
1:27-31) (Psalm
139:14) (I
Corinthians 6:13b). God created sexual intimacy
to be enjoyed within the safe boundaries of a publicly-declared,
life-long commitment of marriage. (Hebrews
13:4) (I
Corinthians 7:4)
(Proverbs
5:15-18) God clearly presents serious consequences
for those who choose to ignore this truth. (I
Corinthians 10:8) (Colossians
3:5-6) God’s plan does not spoil our lives
but brings fulfillment and happiness. God wants us to enjoy
a healthy life in a beautiful family environment. We sometimes
think that He is fencing us in and denying us pleasure. The
truth, however, is that He is protecting us from danger.
Before you hastily agree to have sex with
anyone, ask yourself, “What are the possible consequences?”
First, you could get pregnant. Many women are getting pregnant
when they don’t intend to, forcing them to make difficult
decisions about how to deal with an unexpected child. Don’t
fool yourself; the consequences of pregnancy will permanently
change your life.
Second, sex before marriage could expose
you to HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. Due
to this ever present danger, churches in Kenya are strongly
advising that before any person gets married, that they go
for HIV testing. Why gamble with your life? A lethal disease
can be transmitted by a single sexual contact with one infected
partner.
Third, sex before marriage exposes you to
spiritual and emotional trauma. Sex is not just a physical
union. It involves your soul, your emotions and your personality.
When you have sex, you are creating a powerful bond between
you and your sexual partner. You are giving away a very intimate
part of who you are. When your sexual partner is not committed
to you in marriage, you risk abuse, emotional pain and guilt.
Abstinence preserves sexual intimacy, and the powerful bond
it creates, for the commitment of marriage.
Sex is a special gift from God. It is the only comprehensive
and totally sure protection against potential physical, emotional
and spiritual damage. Sex performed outside of marriage leaves
physical and spiritual scars. When sex is done in a loving
and responsible way within the safe boundaries of the permanent
relationship of marriage, it is good. It is a beautiful and
powerful expression of love between husband and wife. It is
definitely worth the wait!
Make a Difference
Using sex as a game or for recreation has
serious consequences. It does not guarantee an ongoing relationship
with the one you love. It does not guarantee security in the
relationship. It does not guarantee a family. And, if you
acquire a disease, it can rob you of the ability to have children
later when you want to have them. When you have sex outside
of marriage, you are literally risking your life and future.
God is the designer of sex. More than risking
diseases or pregnancy, sex before marriage is sin and often
causes deep emotional scars that linger into marriage. God
has provided guidelines for sexual intimacy and with whom
we should have sexual intimacy. This is not because sex is
bad. No, it is because sex is such a powerful, intense force
within us that it should be handled with the greatest of care.
For girls who become sexually active before
marriage, it is not uncommon for them to feel guilt, thinking
that ‘everybody knows’ and as a result they struggle
with their own shame. ‘Everyone’ may not know,
but God does know and He can, and will, forgive and forget
if you come to Him!
For those who fail to remain sexually pure
until marriage, or who fail while in a marriage, there is
hope. God is willing to forgive and allow healing. It takes
confession, repentance and a desire to start anew, but it
is possible!
Those few moments of pleasure are not worth
a lifetime of misery. Make a wise choice today. Make a
difference!
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| “ Finally brothers; whatever
is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever
is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable if
anything is excellent or praiseworthy think about such
things.” Philippians 4:8 |
| “But among you there must
not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind
of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper
for God's holy people.” Ephesians 5:3 |
| “The acts of the sinful nature
are obvious; sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery.”
Galatians 5:19 |
| “ It is God's will that you
should be sanctified, that you should avoid sexual immorality,
that each of you should learn to control his own body
in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate
lust like the heathen, who do not know God, and that
in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take
advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for all such
sins, as we have already told you and warned you.”
1 Thessalonians 4:3-6 |
| “Flee from sexual immorality.
All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but
he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you
not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit,
who is in you, whom you have received from God? You
are not your own, you were bought at a price. Therefore
honor God with your body.” 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 |
| “So God created man in his
own image, in the image of God he created him, male
and female he created them.God saw all that he had made,
and it was very good. And there was evening, and there
was morning the sixth day.” Genesis 1:27-31 |
| “I praise you because I am
fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.” Psalm 139:14 |
| “The body is not meant for
sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for
the body.” 1 Corinthians 6:13b |
| “Marriage should be honored
by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will
judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.”
Hebrews 13:4 |
| “The wife's body does not
belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the
same way, the husband's body does not belong to him
alone but also to his wife.” 1 Corinthians 7:4 |
| “Drink water from your own
cistern, running water from your own well. Should your
springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water
in the public squares? Let them be yours alone, never
to be shared with strangers. May your fountain be blessed,
and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.”
Proverbs 5:15-18 |
| “We should not commit sexual
immorality, as some of them did-- and in one day twenty-three
thousand of them died.” 1 Corinthians 10:8 |
| “Put to death therefore, whatever
belongs to your earthly nature; sexual immorality, impurity,
lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because
of these, the wrath of God is coming.” Colossians
3:5-6 |
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